I'm struggling to get my head round this at the moment, and would like some other view points. At the moment at work I have a male and female colleague who I get on with equally well who I met at the same time. Both are single, I've been happily married 15 years.
I've already been out partying with my female collegue outside of work, we text each other when not at work, and she comes to my house for coffee and so on.
My male colleague I've been holding back with because I'm married even though we get on very well and I'm not sure why. If he was female I would arrange to see him outside of work and he'd come to my house and we'd communicate when not at work.
I guess I'm worried about what my husband would think and what other people would think if they saw us outside of work together, but surely it should be no different?
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Musing about platonic friendships
AloeSailor · 20/12/2012 22:28
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