We were chatting online tonight and he just logged of abruptly saying he had an early start.
(No earlier than normal, and normally he says it doesn't matter as he loves chatting to me). We are meant to be meeting tomorrow and he didn't mention it or confirm arrangements I am feeling used and mightily pissed off with him. I feel like telling him to go F*ck himself and ending it.
I called him and no reply. No answer to text either.
Sounds a bit weird. I' d be inclined not to text, phone, web chat or mention tomorrow until/unless he contacts you. He'll reveal himself then.........but listen carefully to how he explains his sharp exit.
Hmm. Just odd because he usually talks later and when I protest it;s late he says it doesn't matter. Just a change from usual routine and no proper 'goodnight' either. Just feel a bit upset and vulnerable.
Text/call might be to do with tiredness as well - if he's wanting to focus on his early start he might have put his phone on silent, I sometimes do this as XMIL has an irritating habit of texting at 7am and ruining my last half hour of sleep.
With online contact it's hard to read tone into things so assume the best and don't keep badgering him or you'll look insane. If he's keeping you hanging on by only using online contact or he's the same with other types of communication as well then I'd worry, but if it's just online - you're probably reading too much into it.
But it might be that tomorrow there's a really important thing happening at work or whatever that he REALLY doesn't want to be late/tired/etc for.
Or he just felt tired tonight and couldn't be bothered with the lingering goodbyes of "usual" (after 4 weeks? Okay)
Or something else is stressing him out and he was a bit distracted.
Or his internet cut out and it was being a pain and he decided to go to bed rather than fix it.
Give the guy some space and don't assume he's a twat or feel so rejected about it - it's the INTERNET, it doesn't have the same etiquette as real life and different people place different importance on it. < remembers argument had with DP about "love u" versus "I love you" over msn and meanings thereof>
If you're actually feeling vulnerable and upset because someone you've been talking to for FOUR weeks forgot to say "goodnight" then maybe dating isn't a great idea, though.
Well, I can understand you feeling a bit off if it's not how he usually ends the conversation, but like others have said above see how he is tomorrow. He might have had to say a rushed goodbye and leg it to the toilet for a massive poo Not worth losing sleep over!