Nothing too major, just wanted some advice as I find this relationship stuff confusing.
Last night I watched a film with my boyfriend about domestic violence. It bought up some old feelings for me from my past and I mentioned something that had happened to me while I was with my ex.
My boyfriend responded to this by asking me if I wanted a cup of tea.
I felt really hurt as what I had said was quite a difficult thing to talk about and is obviously a bit of an issue for me. Later on we talked about his reaction a bit and he apologised half heartedly, but this morning he huffed off home as I was still grumpy.
The thing that bothers me is that he avoids things that are difficult to talk about either by pretending that everything is ok or by going home. Now I feel guilty and feel like I should ring him to make the peace but as my ex messed with my head I find it hard to tell which of us is being unreasonable. What should I do? Please tell me if I am being a twat!
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Argued with boyfriend, What should I do?
shoobydoo · 18/11/2012 15:22
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