Dp has a habit of touching me intimately when I am asleep. By the time I wake up, I am physically aroused and stupidly sometimes this leads into sex, others it involves me slapping his hand away. However I would always make it clear to him I did NOT want him doing this again, that I am not comfortable with it. However it has continued, to the point where I cannot relax when sleeping anymore. I am hyper-aware of his presence, don't lay on my back anymore and have to face away from him and certainly cannot be affectionate/hug etc as sleeping as it ALWAYS results in him initiating sex when I am asleep again. We have had countless rows over it.
Well it happened again last night after him promising me days ago it wouldn't. He is claiming he wasn't fully awake/didn't realise he was doing it. But stupidly again by the point I woke up my body was craving more and we had sex. I am confused- is this all my fault for responding despite numerous requests for him to not begin? I am exhausted and confused.
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Sexual advances when asleep
Goodbyetonsils · 03/11/2012 10:41
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