Is it possible to be 'made' depressed by someone else? My DH works away Monday-Friday so we only have weekends together. Even though I manage my life quite well when I am on my own, I am finding weekends increasingly dogged by a feeling that I recognise as depression.
It is almost as if there is a tangible atmosphere that descends on the house when he is there IFSWIM.
He has very little to say to me and can spend several hours in front of the TV or on a car journey without saying a word. He just says he isn't a talker.
I feel we have no communication at all and that he doesn't really hear me. He usually 'forgets' things I have told him.
I have tried to find things we can do together but he always has a reason to prevaricate and so we do very little with our weekends - apart from watch TV. Mealtimes are very stressful - silence apart from the sounds of eating.
Anyway, not sure I am being very clear here but I am aware of the difference between weekdays when I feel OK and weekends when I seem to lose all interest in life. I know DH is not a bad person and I feel so guilty about being so negative. Thanks for listening.
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Why does he depress me?
rufussmum · 29/10/2012 20:20
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