Hello,
I just need some advice on getting over someone. I met someone when I was on a work trip thousands of miles away. We clicked instantly, and within an incredibly short period of time, we were saying how happy we were.
It soon transpired that there was an ex on the scene (his side), but it was "all over", but "needed to be handled with care". In the end, he went back to his "ex" (whether she ever really was one!) to "give it another go".
Everyone of my friends are telling me he's an idiot, used me, etc, etc., and I suspect all that is true ... but I cannot for the life of me stop thinking about him. I've blocked him on Facebook, stopped most contact (except we do have to send some work emails). However, only the other week he writes to me to say "I've been telling myself though that the only way I'm going to get through at the moment is to decide to be happy. I know it's largely artificial and it's good when you leave me alone because I can keep telling myself that and believe it too".
Madly, I still find myself thinking that we were perfect for each other, and if he were only to realise, etc, we'd be fine. I know this is all complete madness on my side, but I can't stop thinking it. It's driving me crazy.
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Getting over someone - v. short relationship
Beograde · 23/10/2012 09:04
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