Dh left a fortnight ago. It was expected, I suppose, although I had hoped he might change his mind.
The children don't know he has left yet, as he works at a hospital doing crazy shifts, so is often not here anyway.
I really want to tell the dc, although he says not yet as he wants us both to be ok with things and for it to come across as a positive thing
I am willing to wait a little bit longer, as I am going away next weekend to stay with my best friend and I don't want to say anything before then because it might seem as though I am the one doing the leaving.
I feel a lot stronger 2 weeks on than I did, and think I can talk about it with the dc reasonably, and so want to do it in 2 weeks time.
Any advice though? I am dreading it, and really cannot guess how they will take it.
I feel I really need to tell the dc, I need to move on, and having to pretend to loads of people everything is fine is really hard, and telling the dc is the first big step towards this.
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How to tell the children
tummytickler · 20/09/2012 09:52
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