Hi all fellow mumsnetters.
I?ve been a long time lurker on this site, picking up useful hints and tips over the months, but after spending some time on the relationships forum I can?t help but notice that most of the topics on here are from people who are sometimes in the most terrible of situations with their OH?s. I think mumsnet is a great place for people to come and get some sound advice in an anonymous way and hopefully either turn these situations around for the better or find the strength to leave and make a better life for themselves.
I wanted to start a more positive thread on here, hopefully to show that there are decent people in the world who will treat you as you are meant to be treated, and that you don?t have to put up with such awful relationships as they are not ?normal?.
With that ?caveat? out of the way, I just wanted those who are happy in their relationships to perhaps share a little story or tale about you and your happy relationship to give people some hope when they are feeling down.
I?m very happy with my lot at the moment. My DH and I met when we were both 19 and at University together, we?ve gone through moving to London, establishing our careers, two redundancies and a move to Australia together. We?ve been together 9 years next month and got married in the most beautiful ceremony surrounded by friends and family 18 months ago. He makes me smile and laugh at least 10 times a day, we love spending time just in each other?s company and sharing in each other?s hobbies (2 hours in the rain watching him play Sunday league football yesterday!)
Of course we have disagreements, but this is more along the lines of ?why can?t you stack the dishwasher properly?? or ?do you realise your socks have been in the middle of the living room floor for 2 days now?? rather than full scale screaming rows. My DH is not a romantic, the meaning behind flowers escapes him, at the end of his wedding speech he toasted ?to me!? and sat down, so he is not without his faults ? but he makes me insanely happy and I couldn?t imagine being without him. Next year we have plans to start a family and I just hope that we can stay as happy as we are now when the little bundle comes along.
Is there anyone else out there happy with their lot?
xx
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Is there anyone here happy with their lot?
happygoluckyinOz · 07/05/2012 02:25
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