On the surface we get on fine. Normal conversations take place, life goes on. But we had a row recently and things were said on both sides and things deep down are definitely not right. He said he's not sure how he feels about me and I said perhaps we should call it a day. I don't want to but I don't want to live a lie either.
But you'd never know it. Normal conversation continues. Life goes on. He even came over and hugged me last night, for something random. I asked him why and he just shrugged.
I tried to talk to him about how he felt as I feel awful and don't trust him anymore. I know he's talked about me to his mother because she's been off with me lately. I asked him how he felt and he just clammed up. He won't answer me or initiate any conversation about our marriage. I don't know if he still loves me because he can't or won't tell me. I need to talk about this, I feel stuck in limbo. If he wants to end it, why not just get on with it? Why pretend everything's ok? I don't know what's going on in my own marriage.
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Dh won't talk about it
Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 02/05/2012 13:52
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