Here we go again, yet another thread about the same thing.
I just can't get past what was said, I am so angry and hurt. I've cried every day since I last saw them and live in fear of the next time I see them, which will probably be Sunday or next weekend.
The thing is, I don't really think this is the problem anymore, I think the problem is DH and the fact that he is not giving me any support. I am so angry at him for not supporting me and that has lead to resentment and lack of trust. I don't want to be with a man who lets his parents verbally abuse me and then when I try to explain why I feel the way I feel, have him trivialise what I'm feeling.
Things are so bad, that it looks like we are heading for divorce. We don't speak, txt or email during the day. In the evenings he has started going out for a walk and then we either sit quiet in the same room, or as in the case of tonight, sit in different rooms. He goes to bed at 10pm and I stay up past midnight.
I get the impression that sooner or later, there will be another fall out with the in-laws, that once again he will let them attack me and that together they will push me out of the family whilst trying to take my children.
Of course, this sounds really paranoid, I know it does, but it really does worry me that thats what is going on.
It feels like they want to try and make a case that I'm mentally unstable and unfit to care for my own children. Why else would they keep telling me I need help, everytime I see them, why would the mother-in-law ask me if I am seeing a doctor.
I don't know what I'm expecting to gain out of yet another thread, after searching the internet and trying to speak to a colleague, it seems I'm on my own. It feels like no one cares about how I'm feeling. I just don't know what to do.
DH say's he doesn't want to divorce, but he is not really making much effort to stop it going down that route and neither am I. He has suggested councelling, but I don't want this.
And so here I sit, alone and crying, safe in the knowledge that I'm probably going to get divorced and lose my children to my husband and his parents.
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In-laws making my life a misery.
MrsRigby · 14/10/2011 23:29
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