have just sent H to the spare room. I can't take any more hassle and bitterness. We have 2 dd's nearly 5 and 11 months. I'm sick and tired of doing everything. H has a promotion so I could give up work (with help from quite a substantial inheritance of mine), we got a cleaner as I can do an hour's tutoring for the same money.
He is never happy. Everything is inconvenient to him, swimming lessons for the eldest so he has to come home on time once a week. ( I could manage with the 11 month old at the same time). The tutoring has to be at the weekend now so inconveniences him. Last Sat I tutored then still had to get the girls dressed, fed, teeth cleaned etc before dancing lessons for dd1.
We really need work doing on the house so as we have a builder coming tomorrow, I asked H to sort out the bedroom (a mess) and I would do the kitchen. I also suggested his parents could maybe help so I could tutor this weekend. H wants to fetch various furniture etc. It's led to an almighty row. Apparently I have taken on too much, (1 hrs tutoring a week) and I let rip about being, to all intents and purposes, a single Mum. He slept in the spare room till dd2 slept through the night (6 months) and still insisted on 1 lie in each at the
weekend.
Trying not to drip feed but I don't like H much any more. I'm tired of walking on eggshells with him, that's what we had to do with my Dad due to stresses at work and that's not what I want for my dd's. What do I do now?
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