Have posted on same subject before & although I have lots of lovely friends they do tend to either fence sit or are so cross at the babies dad that they want revenge!! So I am asking for a calmer prospective please...
Quick recap; I am 5 months pregnant not planned but now so happy as I lost a child 3 years ago!! The dad is a neighbour who I was having a casual no strings kind of sexual relationship with..he was very angry when I told him I was pregnant & I don't blame him for this as the contraception failiure was down to me we have only spoken twice since I told him & he has ignored me for the last 3 & half months!!! Will pass me in the street without even glancing in my direction..I have tried to keep communication open sent him scan pics etc.. but he appears to have been able to shut the situation out of his life altogether.. My plan was to this weekend send his parents (We have never met) a 20 week scan pic & a letter telling them about the baby. I have drafted a nice letter in which I have not slagged off their son I have explained why I could not terminate (my deceased child) & said that what they do now is up to them but I feel in my heart this is the right thing to do & they have the right to know. (They seem to be from what he has told me decent people who love their other grandchildren) ....So is this the right thing to do peeps?????
Or am I just trying to hurt him because I feel he is treating me poorly, or should I wait until closer to the birth??? Thanks for any opinions you care to give!! xx
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BelleRomford74 · 04/10/2011 13:35
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