I love my hubby of 15 years so much. We had a discussion at the weekend at a wedding. It went like this:
I said that I really don't know any one who has been married for 15 years or the like, who is really happy in their relationship, and that one has to work hard to make a relatonship work and be good.(We don't have any freinds that have been together for more than 10 years and most of our friends are either single or not happy in their relationships!)
He obviously didn't agree!!!!!
We have had ups and downs over the years, the usual marriage probs probably, having babies, sleepless nights, our second child was stillborn, we have 2 special needs kids too! no money in the early days.
I am tidy and him messy which has caused many an arguement, and also the, what I would say was, the inbalance of sharing household duties when we both work.
I personally work hard at the relationship, and let him do all the hobbies that he wants to do, I think I am a prettyeasy going good wife.
I don't think any relationship naturally happens to be 100% successful without working at it. I must add, I think I work harder!!!!
Although i must say he his probably more lovey dovey, but I think that comes from me getting fed up with him more that often, not doing/forgetting to do things like little jobs around the house.....which has become a very long list now.
Yes - feeling a bit mony today.
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Is there anyone out there who is really happy and has been together years - do you work hard at your relationship or does it come naturally.
CrazyBabies · 03/10/2011 16:23
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