Ex ( divorcing) husband calls me up and starts shouting becuase i 'have not yet returned the divorce paperwork and should just sign it and send it back' Accoring to him i do not need a solicitor, the fact he has left all the child maintence payments section blank and issues of joint debt/pension/any kind of financial settlement are left blank because it is ' all sorted' news to me. i tell him i will consult my solicotor and there is no need for us to argue.
he then resorts to other tactics to try to get me to sign it as is.
One of which being telling me that we were just rubbish at marriage.
I tell him, that i wasnt rubbish at marriage at all. He declares that i was, because i never forgave him for any of his affairs and was mean to him about it and didnt trust him.
He said it wasnt his fault becuse he was an idiot and too young to be married ( true, but i didnt make him propse or go through with it).
Apparetnly because i never forgave him, even though he never ever confessed or appoligsed he thought he might as well keep having affairs, but it wasnt that bad as it was only 1 or 2 a year.
:(
Today i am sad, and angry and fucked off and bitter.
Im usually ok, but god, i hate that man. I hate him for what he did, and what he put me through, for the time i wont get back and for the longer term effects it has had on me.
( just venting, i have noone in real life i would say any of this to)
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According to him, this is why our marriage failed.
redderthanred · 16/09/2011 09:36
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