Hi everyone. I posted before under a different name.
DP and I have been having trust issues lately as for the past two years he'd tell stupid lies, promise to be home at a certain time and stroll in with no keys making me wait up all night at 5am and daft childish things like turning his phone off or answering just for me to hear music and hanging up. This is the product of an easily led suppressed party voy DP and his moronic friends (DP is 25, moronic friends are 35+).
Tonight DP is going out to celebrate a friends birthday. He doesn't have a lot of money and has to be up at 7am for work. I'm having issues trusting but I know I can't stop him and he has to have the opportunity to prove it to me. I can't help thinking he'll let me down.
Am I being a controlling freak by insisting he's home by 12am because I don't feel well, need him to prove he can keep promises, we don't have much money and he has work tomorrow? I don't think so but friends have said I'm a bitch and shouldn't do it :/
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Fatshionista · 10/09/2011 16:06
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