DH and I have been married for 5 years together for 8. We have two lovely DS's. He is hard working and a great dad and for the most part we get along like best friends and rarely argue, etc. He is hard to argue with as he is so laid back. He has never been one to make an effort with clothes or looks and so this is not his fault, it is something I have always been aware of but I think after having two DC and knowing the effort I put in to looking nice when we go out it is bothering me that he doesn't even try. He is naturally attractive, happy person and everyone loves him if that makes sense, no one can ever see that he has bad points like everyone else and I am not a very open person so would struggle to discuss this with anyone in RL, we have also moved away from our home so I don't have any friends I feel close enough to discuss this with.
I have worked hard to gain back my feelings but just can't see us getting there and probably should end the marriage but we have a good life and our DS are so happy and settled, I know they would have not have the same life if we were to split.
Sorry for the mammoth post, I think I just needed to write it all down.
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I just don't find him attractive anymore
tootiredtomakeupagoodname · 18/08/2011 14:58
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