My DH and I are having an ongoing (ie. over 5 years) 'discussion' about having children. I am not completely unwilling, but have a lot of ishoos relating to my own upbringing, my body and my mental health.Essentially, I would rather not. He would be a perfect Dad and never really considered the alternative.
So you can see our dilemma. My position is not a surprise to him. We discussed this at length before we got married.
My question for MNers is - have any of you had a child for your your DH primarily? Have any of you NOT had a child despite your DH really wanting one? In either case, how did this affect your marriage?
Our problem is that we love each other and our marriage is good. DH is very curious about your responses, as am I.
Thanks in advance.
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Babies vs Marriage
SpiderDog · 29/07/2011 11:58
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