I am a single parent of two boys - aged 4 and 6, one of whom is undergoing assessment for ASD. I also have an abusive ex-husband, who still attempts to control me by being an awkward pain in the arse despite the fact we have been apart 2 and a half years and we are nearly divorced.
Thing is, I was talking with a guy I have been seeing for about 6 months last night over dinner and he said he didn't have any doubts about wanting to be with me, but he did about everything that being with me entailed. He said he had never envisaged having four children, two of whom he wasn't the father of (he has two from his marriage who are the same age as mine) and wasn't sure how it would all work...
Should I be horribly offended? I really have fallen in love with this man and I do feel a bit upset that he wasn't just going to embrace it all without hesitation - but on the other hand it is a big ask I suppose and I want the kind of relationship that entails honesty.
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Ouch, a bit too honest?
wileycoyote · 16/07/2011 17:07
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