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Have a 1 year old DD. From the very beginning DP has really struggled with her crying. It's not that he feels helpless she's upset or anything like that, it's the noise itself. It's like nails down a blackboard to him, it makes him incredibly stressed and of course that makes him bad tempered.
I don't know what to do. It really upsets me when he says things like "I can't stand that fucking noise". I can't really explain why it upsets me, apart from I hate arguing and tension, also I think I feel hurt on DD's behalf, IYSWIM. It stupidly also makes me feel guilty, which is bonkers.
I should say that if ever she has hurt herself or is ill or teething etc he is extremely sympathetic and quite rightly very kind and comforting to her. It's the whiny tantrummy type of crying he absolutely can't stick.
Any ideas?
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Help me help DP cope with baby crying.
StarSpangledBanana · 15/07/2011 10:42
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