I have just come out of an abusive relationship (v.early days) of 16 years and I have a predicament.
I think everyone says that you should stay clear of men for a while, however I have met someone and here are my thoughts. I have a really screwed up view of sex having been coerced, put down and basically used for sex for a long time. And I want this to change and feel like I need to prove to myself that sex can be enjoyable again and not all men are hideous sex pests. This guy I have met is completely out of my social circle and (obviously) would be well up for a no strings arrangement, and I do fancy the pants off him.
Shall I or not? Will I regret it or will I have a Thelma and Louise - Brad Pitt moment of sexual liberation? I hate the fact I have not had reasonable sex for so long and that I was made to feel like it was all my fault.
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LadyBlaBlah · 29/06/2011 10:00
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