Back story here
Bumped into Ex today and he told me is seeing someone else. This someone is 'very sweet and very dear' and I feel as if my heart is breaking all over again. He says they have lots of laughs together whereas I was always down and miserable.
He maintains that the break-up was down to me always wanting my own way and that the dog business was the last straw for him.
For some reason I find I am unable to argue with him or express my point of view clearly as he is able to tie me up into knots. I am no fool, degree educated, professional career, yet this man manages to make me tongue-tied.
Anyway, he is now loved up with this new woman but I am welcome to pop in for coffee if I am around. He says I should be OK about bumping into her or them together and doesn't seem to see that I couldn't bear to see it. He says I should be more grown up about it all.
I feel that I could have tried harder to save this relationship and am blaming myself for all of this. I don't know how to make myself feel better.
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Ex has new woman and it hurts.
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