I hadn't my yr1 parent teacher meeting for dd3 2 weeks ago. Dd is still almost completely illiterate. We raided concerns last year with her reception teacher who told us that she could read, that she was likely just being stubborn with the homework and that she was pulling the wool over our eyes. Knew this wasn't the case but we let it go as she was sure there was no problem. Dd is summer born and the youngest in the class. We spoke to this years number of times and she agreed from the off that she was behind and struggling with her reading. We asked for support for her and were told that she wasn't a priority. She was eventually withdrawn for some small group support which the school never informed us about in January but we have been told that there has been no progress.
At the parent teacher meeting the teacher told me that dd has no interest in anything, constantly talks and disrupts the child next to her, is making no progress, must understand that it is bad manner to contstantly talk through class. There was nothing positive except that "she's well able to stand up for herself". Told that even with the group support attainment gap is widening between dd and everyone else in class. Again I was pushing for some support and possibly and assessment of some sort. Teacher said that she saw no need for an assessment as she didn't think that dd had any learning disability. I said that there is clearly a problem and was told that "she's of low iq". And that was that.... no extra support, no discussion about any possible explanations, nothing. We have booked dd in for a private assessment to see what's what but at are at a loss to know how to deal with dd's teacher. I went to the principal to ask for extra support and reported what had been said re iq and I suspect the teacher may have gotten into trouble because she is now essentially refusing to engage with myself an dh. There is still a lot of the school year left.....
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Kerm1 · 18/03/2018 09:55
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