My son has been to many many birthday parties of different types. So I am trying to work out what party to make for HIS birthday.
He does not want to have a cinema party because there is no point as they dont interact.
He does not want laser tag because the guns are crap as they dont count up scores, and it is not real interaction.
He does not want to have a bowling party (despite being ACE at bowling at hitting strikes all the time)
He does not want to have a gymnastics party because the other kids might hurt themselves.
He does not want to have a trampolining party because there will not be enough time on the trampoline for each child and a lot of hanging around waiting.
He does not want to have a sports party with rugby and football, because he does not like those sports.
So, probing deeper, based on what he really likes and what his personality is, I asked him if he wanted a Teddy Bear Picnic party, he lit up and said, "no it will be embarrassing because really it is very childish"
I asked him if he wanted a really small party with 4-5 close friends at home for pizza, cake and play time, and he said "hmmm maybe"
The only thing he has asked for in the past is to take 2-3 friends to Legoland Windsor. Do you think other parents will let their 7/8 year olds go to Legoland with us?
Alternatively, 2-3 friends to a Build a Bear type of event?
He is a popular boy, with many friends, both boys and girls, so I really dont know what to suggest?!
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My son does not want to have a birthday party. What can I do? He is in Y3
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QuintessentialOHara · 01/05/2013 15:10
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