Hi,
I found out just over a week ago that I am pregnant...I'm only 5 or 6 weeks...totally unplanned and I've only been with my boyfriend for 10 months. We don't live together although we would have planned to in the future.
I already have a ten year old DS, he has a 2 year old DD from previous relationships.
He does not want the baby, not one bit. But I do. All his reasons for not having it are ones I agree with...timing is wrong, situation is wrong, he already had an unplanned DD who he doesn't live with, we don't live together, he is in the process of moving house for work further away than he is right now, we haven't been together very long, we need to get to know each other better, enjoy time together etc etc. (And I know we should have used proper protection to ensure this didn't happen, but we got caught out and it has)
I agree with everything he says, but I'm the one who is pregnant and bonding and feeling emotional about it...I know a termination won't save my relationship but I really don't know what to do.
He says this is the worst thing that could have happened to him and if I loved him, I would have a termination because how could I have a baby with someone who doesn't want it.
I don't know what to do and it's taking up my every thought.
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GalwayGal123 · 29/12/2015 21:06
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