Hi Everyone,
First, a quick introduction. I'm a newbie and I only joined today. I heard about this site in a book I'm reading called The Baby Diaries by Tess Daly. So I thought I'd come along and check it out.
Im 16 weeks and 3 days pregnant and feel that being a Mummy is something I have wanted for so so long! The only problem is, some people and certain ''friends'' have been making some very hurtful comments.
My partner and I havent been together for what most people would consider 'ages' but we're madly in love and know it feels right. Having a baby together is something we both wanted very much. When we announced the pregnancy many people reacted with shock rather than delight for us and said things like ''Ooops, I take it that was an accident??'' or ''Was it planned? Its a bit soon''. I spent so many evenings crying on the sofa as these comments really upset me.
Have other people experienced this?
Am I over-reacting?
My partner seems to be able to just take it on the chin and not let it affect him. But I'm furious that people think they have the right to ask such rude, intrusive and hurtful questions!
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KelBel13 · 25/05/2010 12:19
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