So I have a question that I think would really help me be at ease if I just knew it was somewhat normal. I am currently 24, I have a wonderful boyfriend who I've been with for a few years now, he's so supportive, and I am truly in a ideal situation, but still can't bring myself to be as excited as I thought I would be to be pregnant. I do suffer from anxiety and depression. We weren't really trying to prevent being pregnant, but I just didn't think I expected it to happen so quickly. You never know how you're going to feel even if you're trying until you see that positive sign. Lately i Have been wresting with my thoughts to an extreme degree, I'm about 7 weeks pregnant. One minute I'll think this isn't that bad and be happy. But I start compulsively thinking about child birth, my anxiety will kick in and my heart will race. I am so so scared of childbirth. Ethier of the pain, of something going wrong with the baby. Just being pregnant in general has made me feel like I have no control of my body and I am a control freak. It makes you feel so bad when you're significant other is happy, when you see many women who enjoy it, who don't fear it much. And you're sitting there stuck in your thoughts. Can anyone relate to what I'm feeling, does it pass, is it normal for some newly expecting moms to feel this way. I just need advice, it would b appreciate.
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