So, my mum and I were discussing going to the hosp when I give birth. She said to call her immediately when I get contractions so she can come home from work to go to the hosp with me... to this, I replied, ' I don't need you to come with me/ I don't need you there'.
This came out sounding a lot more harsh than I thought it would... Anyway, she starts crying and ignoring me and wont look at me...
What I meant was, my fiance and I want to be in the birthing room alone, but you can be in the waiting room. I guess it didn't come out that way...
I had no idea she would react the way she did.. I mean... It's my choice who I have there, but on the other hand, it's her 1st grandchild so maybe she was excited and expected to be present for the birth? OR maybe she took it literally like 'my daughter doesn't want me at the hosp at all'.
She's at work now so I'll have to wait till she returns home to explain what I meant, but has anyone else had this situation... XYZ wants to be in birthing room but you don't want that etc, How did you handle the situation without hurting anyone... I handled it badly of course...
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Mother upset that I don't want her there during labour?
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JennyC520 · 21/11/2015 14:10
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