I'm 14 wks pregnant with 1st and hubby and I are over the moon. We're both 36 so reasonably mature and think we have everything sorted as far as our life arrangements go. My mum is so excited as it'll be her 1st grandchild but just off the phone with her and although I'm keen for her to help out a lot with the baby, I'm now worried about her 'knowing best' attitude. She'd 'been thinking' that perhaps our flat isn't suitable for a baby (it is) and why don't we buy a house near her or 'even better' move in with her while I'm on mat leave to save some money (lol). She also seems a bit offended that I plan to put the baby in nursery at least a few times a week rather than let her be a full time carer when I go back to work; she thinks I'm mad spending money on nursery but in reality I don't want my mum bringing up my baby and I like the thought of my baby mingling with other kids at nursery. She also scoffed when I told her that any 2nd hand cot she buys needs a new mattress.....I got the whole 'in my day' chat.
Am I needlessly worrying or has anyone else clashed with their mum over their baby? x
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Has anyone clashed with their mum over baby related stuff?
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Heatherbell1978 · 16/02/2014 18:24
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