So our 20 week scan has shown us a lovely healthy girl. Both DH and I were pretty stunned as we were both convinced it was going to be a boy and in our hearts we both wanted one.
The scan was 3days ago now & I'm ashamed that I'm still feeling low. I never had a good relationship with my mother and am worried about parenting a girl. I simply won't know what to do with a "girly" girl - I can't stand shopping and princesses and frills and pink.
I know that I'm being selfish and irrational and horrible for even feeling like this, so please don't flame me. It took us a long time to conceive and I've MCd previously, so of course we know how lucky we are and we're delighted that our baby is healthy. I'm worrying now though that I'm going to struggle to bond with my baby when she's born, as I've felt a bit disconnected from the pregnancy since the scan.
Due to my age it's most likely this will be our only child and I've also got it into my head that boys do better as only children, so I'm pretty worried about that too.
I'd really like to hear from anyone who felt like this and how it worked out for you.
I'd also love to hear some great things about amazing daughters and the way they are and stuff they do - particularly solo girls.
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It's a girl....thought it was a boy......
Notinthepink · 21/07/2012 10:25
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