This morning on the tube, a really old fellow got on- so I offered my seat to him (figured he needed it more than me, he looked a bit wobbly)... Plenty of people saw, and yet no one then offered me their seat even though I?m obviously pregnant!
Just wondering if anyone has any observations on this. I live in London and commute every day in the rush hour, so I have a Baby on Board badge and these are the generalisations I would make so far, based purely on what I?ve observed in the last few months (I?m 20 weeks preggo now).
- Generally someone will offer me a seat. Very occasionally I have been left standing, but more often than not someone will oblige.
- For those who are interested in London-centric ideas- I find I am more likely to be offered a seat on the Northern or Central line than the DLR.
- City boys in suits are the most likely to see me, pretend they haven?t and then go back to fannying around with their Blackberries.
- Generally people in their 20s always offer a seat, in their 30s usually offer? and the most likely group to see and ignore me are the over 40s. So anyone who says young people have no manners can sod off.
Have previously been shocked and shouted at entire carriages of people for ignoring a pregnant woman- but I really feel less able to say anything now it?s me! But only a couple of times have I been left standing for the whole journey anyway- and if so, it has been very pointedly, I?m afraid.
Anyone else got any observations? I?m just interested.