Eldest DC is not a typical teenager in many respects. Very thoughtful, questioning, highly academic wants to be a Doctor etc and apply to medical school. Always been a bit morbid and clinical about things like the dead rabbit etc didn’t get too upset - more than average life expectancy etc comments. When much younger I thought they were so matter of fact I wondered about the lack of empathy. That changed as they grew and they are kind and compassionate.
Lockdown is fine. Has thrown themselves into school work etc - great but...
Asking more and more questions daily on what on Earth the point of it all is? They have investigated all the religions and come to the conclusion they are all stories, no one having more rights over what is true than others. Been to church, synagogue, Hindu temple etc and really tried to explore them all. Thinks they are all made to make humans try to feel better that life has a purpose when it doesn’t. Has become very cynical - we work, pay tax, to support those that can’t, those that play the system or the elite. And then we die and are forgotten like little ants - was the comment today. I was a Christian but I don’t believe any more although I’d like to. Walking a popular walk that went past a cemetery today they asked to walk inside - lots of children graves, I got emotional and they said at least they didn’t have the stress of life, not meant unkindly but as in life is not hearts and roses but bloody tough. I’ve had a tough life and she sees others elderly and in pain, family trauma (one of her friend’s gran for example is estranged from her friend’s mum and everyone unhappy about it) etc and they are really questioning me on ‘what’s the point of it all?’ Their grandparents (my parents) are atheists who helpfully are ‘no point we are all work food. We live for holidays and nice weather etc - my Dc worries about me - my ex was abusive and has no contact with myself or them. I think they worry that I will be alone without them, but it’s all a bit depressing and morose. Any good books for them? Or things to look at? I told them today that philosophers have been looking at the meaning of life for thousands of years and we still don’t have a good answer. Any pointers? Conversation techniques of it.
What does anyone really think is the meaning of life?
Is anyone really happy? Etc are daily questions
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Struggling to answer DC questions about the meaning of life
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Howmanysyllabasisthat · 06/03/2021 19:16
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