I met a lady today who is a wife of a man I used to know when I was in my teens.
This was how I opened the conversation with her.
She then proceded to tell me about her children.Her children are the same age as mine.She said her son has just achieved his 400 mtrs in swimming (16 lengths) and her dd can swim half a length.
The dc are 5.5yrs and 2.5 yrs.
She said her husband taught the chldren themselves.
She really did go on quite alot and didnt take the time to ask me anything about myself not that I wanted to parp on about myself at all,Im just not like that.She then made a point of saying that my dd wanted a toy that her dd had and that her dd realised the height difference so she just put the toy high in the air out of her reach,.
The lady thought it was so funny that my dd could not reach because she is "so small!".
I saw her dd and my dd later on looking at each other and both making really cute faces.I thought it was very sweet that they were interacting and looked at the lady,she said "I know she's so cute isnt she!!" SHe was talking about her dd.
Thus hole thing made me feel strange.
It was almost like she was talking in a tone that made her better than me.
She took no time or effort to ask me anything about my dc or me.
It was self centered.
I wont be talking to her again.I will be polite but certainly wont be going out of my way.
Am i being unreasonable (sorry prob should of out this is that category)
It made me question myself alot on whether I was being jelous or whether I thought I was a crap parent.
Iv thought hard and have got over it now.I feel farely confident as a parent and do my absolute best.
Im being silly I know.
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Met a boasting parent today! Cant stand it!
parker1313 · 12/10/2009 19:35
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