hello. Dd is almost 2 and has always been an incredibly high-needs child. needs to be stimulated 24 hours a day. even when watching tv she needs to be sat on ym lap taliing to me about it. She can play alone, for maybe 20 minutes, but needs me to be involved most of the time.
I work part-time but our days together involve an awful lot of going out, either to play centres/attractions, people's houses, or long walks, mainly because it is easier for me to manage her when i am out - i don't seem to feel the pressure when we are out, mainly because the main purpose of me being out is to entertain her!
anyway, i have absolutely no desire to have another child as dd is such unbelievable hard work. if i even dream of going near another child she screams "NO!, MY MUMMY" and tries to hit them/prise them off me.
Now i know she is young, but please reassure me that she will become easier as she gets older and might one day relish the thought of a brother/sister?
for the record we weren't planning on having another for a couple of years anyway, but I waned to hear your stories please?
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parents of high-needs (grumpy) children/toddlers. How did you EVER have another child?!
beesonmummyshead · 27/07/2009 09:41
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