"the parent chooses what and where the child eats, the child chooses whether to and how much..." according to the chap that wrote Toddler Taming, anyway.
Whilst there's quite a lot of what he says that I'm a bit about, I think that makes quite good sense. In theory.
DS has gone from being a brilliant eater, to eating about 4 things:
rice cakes
toast
beans
bananas
peas
sweetcorn
weetabix
Ok, slightly more than 4, but that is literally it. He's refusing rice, pasta, any vegetables unless you smash them up, make them look like a veggie burger and fry them.
Am completely demoralised after spending ages thinking of healthy balanced meals, cooking them, and putting them straight in the bin. So have decided to offer him a balanced meal, and let him choose whether or not he eats it. They're not foods he doesn't like, as he used to eat them. And I've decided that if he doesn't eat them, then that's fine, but I'm not going to crack and give him a rice cake or toast every time he refuses a meal. Which is literally every time I give him anything that isn't on the list.
I feel like a complete cow though, as today all he's eaten is 1 banana. He's refused yogurt, which he ate yesterday, and wouldn't eat weetabix for breakfast, so am wondering if he just doesn't want to eat, which is fair enough. I'm just so sick of worrying about him getting scurvy, and putting the same few things in front of him. It's making me dread mealtimes as I just can't be arsed with stressing about what he should be eating, cooking it, and then binning it.
Is this fairly common? Do you think am doing the right thing in not caving and letting him live on toast? I'm not starving him really, am offering him fruit, rice, cheese, yogurt etc, and he's choosing not to eat.
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2yr old will only eat 4 things so am trying to starve him into widening his repertoire - help!
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