I am really struggling to not lose my temper with my 2.5 year old. Shes 2, I feel terrible even saying that.
Today is a typical example. Drawing on the walls, refusing dinner, massive fuss brushing teeth (running off, screaming etc), throwing water all over the room, climbing on everything, we were at a midwife appointment earlier and she again ran away meaning I had to chase her, last week she broke my phone and as soon as I got a replacement she chewed the leather cover of the new one and then managed to send an embarrassing news story to most of my contacts list when I left the room for 2mins.
I find myself getting really angry. I grew up with parents who were very impatient and quick to shout and shame me and I hate seeing it mirrored in my own behaviour. Earlier on I was so mad at her and she started tugging at my clothes wanting reassurance as she could see I was angry and I just couldn't calm down enough to do it. I feel like a terrible mum.
Please does anyone have any tips on not getting irrationally angry when their toddler pushes their buttons? I'm so scared we will end up having a similar relationship to the one i have with my parents because i can't control my own emotions.
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Losing my shit with toddler
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Gingerninja01 · 10/12/2019 18:44
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