DH & I plan to have 3 (if we are lucky enough to be able to do so).
We have 1 DS who is 9 months. DH suggested we try for another now so that I can be home with them whilst they are really little, and not have to take too much of a career break. My work/finances aren't a big issue in the decision. I'm more concerned about having a small age gap. He seems to think it's better for the children as they will be closer/have more in common. But what about me lol! Is this true in reality? What are the pros & cons of 18 months (ish) apart? Is 2-3 years better?
Would it be better to have a smaller gap between DC 1 & 2, or should I enjoy my baby for a few years then plan another? Where does a 3rd baby slot in! To add, we've just moved house & have a lot of work to do to this house (full renovation). We have the money set aside for this but DH will be doing a lot himself, we guess it will take 2 years, so that's DH spare time taken up (we have renovated twice so know what it's like). I'm 31 so not old but with the hope to have 3 it is at the back of my mind.
There's 26 months between my sibling & i. We are best friends & talk every day. There's 8 years between DH & his, they arent close at all, which i suspect is influencing this.
Would welcome your opinions/experiences!
(Ps - I'm talking in a perfect hypothetical world where you could click your fingers & have children as/when you liked - what would be your ideal?)
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Ideal sibling age difference?
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Sunisshining12 · 28/11/2017 18:32
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