Hi, so as we all know Christmas is fast approaching (far from organised though lol).
Anyway, me and my OH have been together for 5yrs and we have DS and DD. I dread Christmas Day. We are both very lucky to have parents that live within a 10-15 mile radius but in opposite directions to each other. Most years we get up, open presents, sort lunch, visit my parents, the in laws then get back so DS can go to his fathers on Christmas Day evening. It's not particularly enjoyable. I spend the whole day rushing around trying to please our very particular families. It would be so much easier for family to come to us. As they have no young children. Bearing in my DS has special needs.
This year I would really LOVE to spend the whole day at home, the four of us. Family can visit anytime or we will visit them on Christmas Eve or Boxing Day. But now the family don't think we want to see them..
It's not that all. It's just I would love to spend Christmas Day not rushing, not driving around half of Cornwall pleasing everyone else.
Am I being unreasonable? The whole day is making me anxious already! 😖
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I just want a Christmas at home!!
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JKCR2017 · 13/11/2017 21:50
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