Hi all,
I really need some advice. DS is a month old, and for the past week has become so clingy he seems to scared to even sleep. He is ebf except for odd bottle when I need to do something like bath my 4 year old.
He is beginning to refuse sleep to the point where he can be awake for 4-5 hours and is so unhappy. He doesn't appear to be in pain, although his DR recommended Infacol just in case. He will literally take an hour to fall asleep in your arms then his eyes will spring open the minute I put him down (have tried moses basket, cot, swing, bounces chair, car seat, buggy - he just wants to be held.)
Just now after 3 hours of trying everything from swaddling to white noise to leaving him in peace in case of over stimulation - I walked away and let him cry for 5mins.
WHEN I returned I patted him, soothed him and he went straight to sleep.
I know! I know this is considered evil, bad for attachment etc but I have literally tried everything I can think of, he even hates the sling! My husband and 4yr old are frustrated that I'm always in the bedroom trying to get baby to sleep and everyone is assuring me it's either because a)he doesn't like my milk or b) I have spoilt him by holding him too much.
I am pretty stressed and feel under constant pressure but nothing I'm trying is working. I guess what I'm asking is will he be OK after he cried for that 5mins? And does anyone have any advice?
Thank you very much
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TooGood2BeFalse · 02/08/2016 11:15
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