I'm deliberately not posting this in AIBU because I don't want it to turn bunfighty may be kidding myself though
I just wondered: if you were smacked as a child and have decided it's not something you will do yourself, have you managed to tell your parents this without making them feel like you're criticising them? What did you say? It's just I've seen threads before now from people whose parents have reacted badly to these sorts of conversations and I'm interested to know how to get it right?
I really don't think my parents would ever smack my DD (she's too young for it to even be an issue right now) but want to be crystal clear with them just to be sure and am not sure how best to go about it.
They were and are lovely parents and while I don't think being smacked did me any good, I don't hold it against them and don't want to sound like I do. DF has said before now (can't remember why it came up) that they preferred smacking to some more prolonged punishments that would have dragged on long after the offence itself was forgotten and they felt things could be over and done with and not hang over us for days.
To be honest I preferred having a smacked bum to being deprived of pocket money or a treat but I think in a way that made it less of a deterrent. Anyway, I'd appreciate advice on how to broach it with them without seeming like I'm having a go. Might be overthinking it, I realise!
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If you were smacked and don't smack yourself how did you explain this to your parents?
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doreenmcdoreen · 06/07/2015 15:47
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