My DD is 17 weeks and ebf. Me and DH have got a Christmas night out arranged with friends for a couple of weeks time, it's been arranged for ages, will be our first night out since she was born etc so we're really looking forward to it.
However I just don't know if I can go. We don't have many options for babysitters so it will be DH's dad looking after her. He's lovely but has never been very hands on with her so I'm not entirely comfortable with it. Also she hates taking a bottle of expressed milk, will scream and cry and get herself so worked up into a state and that's just for DH, although she does eventually drink it. Added to this she is currently going through the 4 month sleep regression so she's bound to wake whilst we're out, usually I'm the only one who can settle her back to sleep easily.
I feel sick at the thought of leaving her but DH says we can't miss out and we need a night out together without her. I do agree but can't bear the thought of her waking and I'm not there for her. DH says we'll come straight home if she gets really worked up but it'll take us about half an hour to get back. I really don't know what to do.
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Leaving baby - don't know what to do
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Em1503 · 06/12/2014 07:20
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