I am not sure if this is just the normal challenges of parenthood or I should speak to the HV as it's not normal. I have a beautiful 10 week old DD but I just don't seem to feel the joy other parents feel. Friends who have had children the same time say they are so happy, it's the best thing that's ever happened to them etc but I don't feel like that. There have been a few difficulties but nothing major- we have had a month of colic, I have had mastitis and thrush, she won't sleep in her cot in the day it in the pram so I have to hold her to get her to sleep. I wake in the morning and dread the day, when she cries I feel so stressed, my default is to feed her but I think that's developing bad habits. Her dad is much calmer but she is also quite clingy to me and people say "oh she wants her mummy" which makes me want to cry as I have to deal with her just when I thought I could have a break.
I feel terrible just writing this as she's beautiful and is lovely when she smiles. I am not sure if parenthood just is tough, I need to change my style to resolve some of the little problems or if this is not normal and I should discuss with the HV?
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Is this normal or should I speak to the HV?
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Yoghurtget · 17/06/2014 07:55
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