We're seriously considering me giving up my full time job and becoming a SAHD, and would be keen to hear the experiences of others who have gone down this route.
My wife and I finding that us both working largely full time and having our DD in nursery for several long days each week isn't working for us. I really relish the time spent with our 14-month old DD, while my wife finds full days of childcare a struggle. Although we both earn similar money, my wife really gets a lot out of her work and needs to focus on it full time, whereas I'm get little fulfilment out of my job. Also, nursery seems to lead to ongoing colds and illness for our DD and her getting overtired.
It will mean a substantial income cut but the figures look to stack up, as we save on nursery and my commuting costs. I do have concerns about getting back into the job when DD goes to school; I'm thinking of doing some freelance or consulting work one-day a week to stay up-to-speed with my profession but difficult to know how this will pan out.
I've read posts about SAHD feeling isolated from the parenting community. I'm hoping this won't be the case - getting along to activities each day looks to be a good way of providing structure to the routine - but again it's another concern.
I have encountered several comments when taking DD to the doctors and like that make Dad doing a childcare seem really unusual. I hope that in 2014 we're not quite such a rare and curious breed. Would really like to hear others' experiences.
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TheSprogfather · 22/03/2014 22:27
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