Found a magnet and keyring in the pocket of his coat this morning. They are from a local petshop and have a picture of a dog like ours. Everytime we go in there (it's where we buy the dogfood) he asks if he can have them to which I've always replied he can have them for his birthday (he's 6 in a few weeks).
I asked him where they came from and he told me an elaborate story about how one day when dd was out of her buggy (very rare in this shop) she put them in his pocket without his knowing. He then insisted this story was true for 5 mins until I told him it was impossible and I wanted him to tell me the truth. Which he eventually begrudgingly did.
I can't decide if I'm more angry about the stealing or trying to get his sister to take the blame (she's 3). We had another incident last year where he took a special toy into school and then chucked it round the playground - when I asked him why it was damaged he blamed another boy (who's mum is my best friend). I mentioned it to her (as I thought her ds had been picking on mine) and he was so distraught with the accusation that it made me ask ds again who finally told me the truth. It was very embarrassing and I felt stupid for believing him so readily and we had a huge talk about lying and blaming other people for his mistakes.
Maybe I'm expecting too much of him but to see him lie straight to my face with these big blue eyes really gets to me.
I'm going to pay the shop back for the things and get rid of them (I don't think they'll want them back as the packaging is now damaged) but should I make him apologise? I'm wary about discussing this with any of my friends as I don't want him tarred with this very negative brush.
And he's also really unrepentant. He's said sorry but with no meaning to it and he doesn't even seem to care that I'm so upset. We're usually really close.
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Really disappointed in ds - he's stolen from a shop. And lied to me.
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cupcakes · 21/05/2006 14:31
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