Following on from a previous thread I started I am genuinely interested to hear how others view parenthood. I was brought up along with my sis that we were the centre of everything, I knew we were my Mum's world. My Dad was at work most of the time and usually knackered when we saw him so I had that feeling less from him but I still loved our precious time together. my Nan doted on us too and did make us feel so important and loved.we had sweets every day and I remember my nan giving me half her dinner which i selfishly ate on top of my own!!! When i was older and when i look in photos I notice how unhappy my Mum looks and she admits she was often tired and stressed. Now, she lives alone and does exactly what she wants to do, on her terms and feels she has earned that.
Is that how it works??? Since having my own children my Mum has impressed upon me that I should love every minute of it (coz she she did although dad tells me different ha ha!) i should put kids first 100% of time and that I am here to serve them really until they leave home!!! of course i have fought against that but i do put them first and do forget about me sometimes. i thought that was what being a Mum was all about? How do you achieve a balance?? i am realising the importance of being an example and role model. i don't want ds to treat future girlfriends and wives as doormats or for my dd to think she has to be one...
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cheekymonk · 27/09/2012 13:02
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