just had call from agent of house we're buying to say..deep breath, not the people they're buying from the the next up the line! have decidedor thier solicitor has, that its too soon for the 6th!!!
, we've now changed the date three times and i refused point blank to put it back again and harshly said of second from last in chain..its their problem, tell them to deal with it...move into rented/hotel for a week or whatever and put thier stuff in storage..plus my childminding business has already been on hold for so long and c i s have conytacted our vendor(a childminder) to ask her if she has space for a 8 month old baby!!!!!!!!!!!, she passed my details on but i cant do anything till im in there and reg..amd very very weary and
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EvesMama · 26/05/2006 13:12
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EvesMama ·
26/05/2006 19:26
dont mind if im talking to myself, just a little word to myself every now and again helps!
bloody agent AND soicitor havent come back to me
and now wont prob hear anything till tuesday
other prob in delaying AGAIN is dd's school..dp has took works van back so now itll be nigh on impossible if we dont move that day
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cece ·
26/05/2006 19:40
Oh no I was hoping this wasn't you evesmama!
stay calm, deep breaths, it will be alright in the end 
EvesMama ·
26/05/2006 19:43
just shows cece, i wasnt prepared for as much as i thought i was!
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EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 19:53
dont say that
im really gutted today..agent dealing with it is off til ties..conveniently and other girl said vendor(which one i dont know?) rang to dicsuss with her delay in moving date????? dont know who or what that entailed ut very p**d off, worried about money covering bills here(cant afford to be here)..and first well know is tuesday if then?..and that is one week before our date which means ill have to re-ring EVERYBODY!!! removals, phone, b band, domestic services, plumber, electricion oh lord
and to top it all..my hairs started to fall out again with the stress
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EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 20:13
well my solicitor had a call from our vendors solicitor to ask for exchange and she put it back to him as she said we would move yesterday..its thier bloody vendor thats holding things up here..people cant seriously expect to go on and on in a chain waiting for the very last person to move out..we'd move out if their was a prob for our our buyer and we were further up chain..and TBH am a bit peeved of with our vendor, yes they have 4 children, but two are young adults, one is toddler and another is nearing double figures, so it wouldnt be impossible for them to rent for a time..considering the sale of their house(our new house) has fallen through once already and they have 4 children plus them selves in a three bed semi..they cant risk losing this sale, nor can they stay there..arrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhh
ggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
am so sad and angry and stressed
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EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 20:14
sorry went of on one.
am gunna have to wait til tues to speak to solicitor and although it kills me to say..find out the earliest date we can move..then i will make the bS sign the papers so they're bound to it
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EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 20:16
hi spacey
i spoke to solicitor(aunties sister so very good with us)
and she was speaking to them fri..aparently last (i assume??) in chain only instructed solicitor just over 4 weeks ago??? and aparently their solicitor has said the date is no good!!..im hoping mine told him to feck off and get his finger out!
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EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 20:59
ill take notes from there when i ring solicitor back tues thanks spacey
will have to find all that out..solicitor is fab so if theres any way she can do it i know she will(please keep evrything crossed for me!)
having a large dry martini and lemonaide and going to wash my hair..whats left of it..and gunna have a bitch about something else to take my mind off it!
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spacecadet ·
27/05/2006 21:04
they say moving house is the most stressful thing you can do, apart from giving birth!, will keep my fingers crossed..it will be worth it when you move into your lovely new home.
EvesMama ·
27/05/2006 21:15
sigh..hope so..just want to settle somewhere and be happy..gunna go watch bb now.ta for the chat spacey..hope you and yours are well?
x
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spacecadet ·
27/05/2006 21:17
yep we are not too bad thanks..slowly but surely settling into the new house
cece ·
28/05/2006 12:12
Evesmama,
this move was quite stress free for us but when we sold our house last OCt and moved into rented. That was very stressful - particularly for everone else in chain. For us not too bad as we went into rented.
Firstly the exchange was delayed for 2 weeks due to ftb paying a large cash deposit and so launching a top secret money laundering investigation!
Then the same person cancelled their mortgage offer after exchange (against their solicitors advice) and tried to get another mortgage offer sorted out in less than a week. Well he didn't tell anyone that he didn't have the money till about 11 am on day of completion. By then all vans were laoded with stuff and ready to roll....
Result was everyone had to unlaod and move back into their old house (except us who went to rented house). It took 10 more days for the money to move and completion! So for 10 days we had 2 houses! The ftb had to pay everyones extra expenses so was not happy but it was his own stupid fault
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EvesMama ·
28/05/2006 19:51
wow...no feel sos orry for the others!
am still so p**d off ..its all i can think about
i wanted it all sorted while dd off school, dp no longer has work van/car, well have to pay all bills here again which are v.high, will have to re ring everyone which will be a nitemare as dd will have to sit here and be patient!
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