After many years of trying to conceive and IVF, we were thrilled to become pregnant. All fine at 8 and 12 week scans. After some bleeding and an additional scan at 14 weeks we were given the devastating news that baby has hydrops. We're waiting for further test results but have been advised it is highly likely and recommended we will need to terminate the pregnancy for medical reasons. I've done all the research and know what is coming.
I feel like I'm in a nightmare that I can't escape :( love baby so much and can't even contemplate how I'm going to come to terms with such a decision.
I'm 40 so feel like this was our last chance.
We have another frozen embryo but I'd be terrified to try again and same thing happen. Just not sure I could cope.
I feel so lost and in despair. Just wondering if anyone out there has been in a similar experience that they could share?
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Advised termination at 14 weeks. IVF pregnancy :( please help.
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Sunn15 · 26/04/2018 21:48
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