I lost my baby on Friday 1st July when I was 16 wks pg. I had been for a scan on Wed due to stomach cramps/bleeding and baby was fine then, waving his arms around. Fast forward to Fri morning (I was admitted to hospital overnight due to heavy bleeding, labour pains and waters started leaking) and baby's heart had stopped beating. This was dc3 for me so I am lucky to have 2 dds already but I am so sad that I never got the chance to get to know my 3rd child. I had been so looking forward to having a new baby at Christmas and also being on ML to settle dd2 into school (she starts reception in Sept). I feel like all my hopes have been snatched away and I am so sad that my baby will never know how much he was loved and wanted. I keep crying.
Anyway, I have to make a decision about funeral arrangements. The hospital have said they will cremate him and hold a service. I don't really want him cremated but that's what they do so I think I will have to accept that. Then they can bury the ashes on the hospital plot with other babies or we can take the ashes. I am just interested to know what other people have chosen to do with their babies? I would really like him to have a proper funeral but this would be very expensive I expect.
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Miscarriage at 16 wks - decisions about funeral
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fatfingers · 06/07/2011 09:09
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