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A man I like added me as a friend on facebook (why yes, I AM an adult, what makes you ask?)

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ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 09:51:08

And after a horrible break up and a massive dry patch I am very very excited because (and given the ex's snooping history, I may have to delete this later) I want out on Sunday night and he walked me home and we had a little kiss and it was lovely ... one glitch - he's only 22.

Now I have had to switch facebook off. I may have to switch the computer off and go out too.


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ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 09:56:03

Am not young, I am a crusty 28.

He thought I was younger apparently, which is good cos I thought he was older.

Oops though. That's what you get for drinking lager top instead of lager shandy. One (male) friend commented loudly "Ugh, the hormones buzzing round you two are disgusting, fuck ouff outside!"

So we didgrin


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ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 10:11:04

6 year age gap is nothing after you are about 35 I think. when you are in 20s and the girl is older ... well.

I am totally getting ahead of myself now. He's probably only being polite. I am trying SO HARD to play it cool, and I'm shit at it!

solo Thu 17-Jul-08 10:16:17

Oh! just enjoy whatever happens with him. Enjoy the flirting(it's practise if nothing else)kissing(more practise)enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!!grin
And by the way young lady angry 28 is not bloody OLD!!!, wish I was that old! wink

Beetroot Thu 17-Jul-08 10:18:04

you are a youongster adn go enjoy feeling young again

miffymum Thu 17-Jul-08 10:18:51

Lucky you. Have lots and lots of ... fun and anything else that comes your way. 6 year age gap doesn't matter, it depends on your and his personalities more than anything else. My DP is 5 years younger than me, it's no big deal.

allgonebellyup Thu 17-Jul-08 10:26:01

im envy

ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 10:27:07

Nothing has happened, I'm just making mountains out of molehills.

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solo Thu 17-Jul-08 11:25:00

mmmmm, so do I tmmj, but rarely get any intimacy including a good snog <sigh>

ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 12:00:41



<<frantically trims bikini line>>

WilyWombat Thu 17-Jul-08 12:02:53

Less of an age gap than me & DH, once you get past 20 its not about years but emotional maturity Just enjoy it.

fawkeoff Thu 17-Jul-08 13:30:51

envy.....that is so nice...i know how you feel about the younger thing.....i have an 23 and he is 21...only 2 years and i find it odd.........dont go for younger men at all....i like someone a bit older.....ha admirer is very forward but funny getting
"let me come round and rip yer back out"

trying to tell him that its not charming....funny but does nothing for me grin

fransmom Thu 17-Jul-08 13:32:52

28 is old?????????

i am 33 and no way am i old girl, enjoy yourself!!!

lou33 Thu 17-Jul-08 13:34:08

lol @ 28 being old

i guess that means i should be looking at saga holidays then!

fransmom Thu 17-Jul-08 13:35:46

hello lou! hows you?

lou33 Thu 17-Jul-08 13:36:00

blimey fawke he sounds like a catch (not)

at your age i preferred older men too, it's only now i am older the younger ones seem more appealing grin

lou33 Thu 17-Jul-08 13:36:22

hi fran

IllegallyBrunette Thu 17-Jul-08 13:37:48

Where do you all keep meeting these blokes ??

Perhaps I need to move further away than planned [girn]

ThatBigGermanPrison Thu 17-Jul-08 13:52:42

I met him in the pub.

I have a friend who knows absolutely everyone. She has barmaided or served in nearly every shop and pub in this town, and she is naturally chatty and smily - so she knows everyone. I met nearly everyone I know through her.

OverMyDeadBody Thu 17-Jul-08 13:56:25


I'd say enjoy him, nothing like a toyboy to spice up your life grin

It doesn't matter how old he is, all that matters is how good his technique is wink

fransmom Thu 17-Jul-08 14:13:30

i think i would like to meet your friend lol i odn't know hardly anyone!! <sob>grin

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