Hi
I have had this problem since last October. My children's father and my ex husband has recently married. He and I split up 9 years ago, long before he got together with her. I have known her for about 6 years as she lives in the same village and children go to same school etc. Everything was civil and fine until they got married. My ex and I had a few issues with our dd (12) over the past year about her not wanting to visit etc, but that has now been sorted. Then of course problems do crop up with parenting and my ex and I have had a few disagreements and different views on things. I think this is normal. Anyhow we still co parent no matter what.
I recently told him I was unhappy that our dd was left in bed asleep, in their house alone with her ds (11), while she went to work, with no phone line as they had just moved in that w/e. My ex was away for the night with our ds. I said it calmly and wished for it not to happen again. Since then she has been really frosty towards me, not saying hello when I say hello, walking away and giving me a dirty look when I drop kids off at theirs or at kids events at school. My dd is doing a show at school this week and my ex and his wife are coming to watch. I am taking my parents along too. I am really worried that there will be an atmosphere and she will make it obvious she does not want to talk to me and that she will blank my parents in front of my dd. So what do I do? do I say something politely to her or my ex in advance or just leave it and see what happens? I don't want an argument I would just like her to be civil and get over it. If she wants to come to my dd's events then I feel she needs to stop being so silly. We have a lifetime of this. Children may get married etc and will she blank me constantly, I feel it needs sorting.
Thanks.
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lavand · 19/06/2011 11:52
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