Two weeks ago my 14 year old DD came out as trans. I know she would prefer me to refer to her as he and as my DS but I’m just not ready for that quite yet. Please don’t judge me.
After much discussion we have agreed, DH,DD and I that she may dress as a boy, she already has short hair. We have a GP appointment next week to talk about counselling and getting her referred to the Tavistock centre. My DH feels it’s too soon for name changes etc and we are both worried about confusing our 12 year old DS.
Today I helped her choose some new, more masculine clothes including boys trousers for school. I was fine while helping and then when I stopped to think about what I had just done my heart broke all over again. I am a very tolerant person and not at all anti trans but this is my little girl we are talking about. I am terrified about what the future holds for her.
I have told her that I love her and I will be behind her supporting her 100% and I mean it. I’m just so sad.
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AEJS · 16/06/2018 18:50
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